salvelinusfontinalis wrote:
I have been trying to participate, almost made the climbers tree planting etc etc but my work has made it difficult.
Between work, kids and project schedules I have been failing badly and I myself need to be more proactive in making it to some of these.
Dude that's the thing. I don't think you should see this as failing. You're a father first and foremost. Well above any participation in these groups, your first priority is to provide for your children and to be with them. The time committment is what consistently keeps me from joining up with DTU or the conservation groups. Work, 3 kids, working on a master's degree as well as doing my pastoral internship, I haven't had time to fish much in the last few months, much less involve myself with service projects. Before this, it was 2 kids, working on my undergrad, working 2 jobs. So where's the time gonna come from?
Its important work, and props to Tim and others who are so dedicated to it. I got nothing but love and respect for you guys, but for many of us, it comes down to either spend the evening at a meeting, or spend the evening with my family. Wife and kids will win out (and SHOULD win out) on that every time. So dude, you aren't failing if you're focusing on your family responsibilities first.
When my kids are older, I fully plan on joining up and having my kids be involved. Heck, my internship becomes a full-time paid internship this January and is in Mount Joy, so that already frees up some time and I have already talked to my internship mentor about working with DTU just for some more community involvement.
We should all consider the fact, though, that many guys may not sign up for these things not out of laziness or viewing them as contempt, but simply because they have higher priorities in their lives.