I took the time to attend Pauls Service yesterday. You never really know someone until you see their funeral service. The short piece you fill in someones life is just a piece to their puzzle. And Paul's box was full of pieces. For instance, he was a starting lineman on a Harris High School team that went undefeated. That explains his love for football I guess. He was a restaurant owner of Paul's Cafe in H-burg. According to his son, he was a hard love type who made him walk to school in bad weather. Now in life his son appreciated that. Not so much then, LOL. Sally put together (well probably Paul jr.) a beautiful video reel that cycled in the off room of the parlor. It was a nice tribute to a nice man.
Pardaic and Hadley made the trip down from Altoona to see him off. TimB also was in attendance. It was a tough day, one of those that hits hard but wouldn't want to be anywhere else.
For his eternal trip, I took a few of his favorite flys, (Orange Ant, Crowe Beetle, Elk Hair Caddis, Quill Gordon) put them on a small foam board and tucked them in his breast pocket of the dark olive corduroy sport coat he was wearing, the exact same color as the corduroy sport coat I was wearing. When I saw Sally I remarked how we had on the same coat...she asked if I had taken his coat and assured me she was going to check.
Afterward, Padraic invited me to join Hadley and He for lunch, when they asked where, I said well, The Pastor said recently Paul remarked he got his best steak at Carrabbas, So with the help of Google, Off we went. I enjoyed a nice lunch with old friends after sending off a mutual friend. One of those days to remember. BTW, I got the steak. We talked alot about Paul and his influence on this site. While never outspoken, it occurred to us that he was always at the center of all the meetings on stream or organized gatherings.
Whether it was at the Jamboree coffee ring, the evening fire ring or a parking lot along a trout stream, Paul was there to assure the meeting was enjoyable. We were trying to recount the number of people we met on stream while fishing with Paul, He would always invite others and share our locations to allow for a meet up.
Padraic posted this on my Facebook Page soon after his passing.
"maybe all I know about Paul is that he was a fine fisherman." "You know more than that," my father said, "he was beautiful." And that was the last time we spoke of my brother's death.
Paul was more than just a fishin' buddy to me. I was privileged to know him.
I couldn't agree more.
Peace out, Paul.