Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences. Hopefully it reminded you of some great moments with the children in your life. The resounding thought is to make it fun. When we go to a stream we always catch a few crayfish or look at the "worm inside the stick" before making a cast. And the farm pond we go to always has a few kittens running around to play with. As long as he is associating those fun things with fishing it's a great day of fishing. He struggled with the push button reels but asked to try my open face and picked it up right away. I think he can feel the tension on his finger and recognizes when to let go. I thought that might translate into feeling a fly rod load up and that was the seed of my question. We will continue to have fun with spin tackle until he asks about trying a fly rod, no need to rush things. Have a blessed Christmas.