brianh,
You hit it for me on the "grumpy old men" part of your post.
But, since I don't do social media (unless participating on this site counts), I don't know what goes on there. I imagine you're talking about facebook, etc. Since I don't own or want an intrusive cell phone, social media on the phone does not affect me, at least I think not, which is probably a good thing.
Anyhow, I admit to being a grumpy old man.