They say ticks like to crawl around on a warm body for about 24 hours before trying to take a drink. I have always been suspicious of this "they say." Do you find this to be true? If so, why not take a very hot and soapy and thorough bath or shower every time you get out of the woods?
Then, have your significant other explore your body or at least the parts you can't explore on your own.
I had an embedded "dog tick" in my stomach. It wasn't engorged, but I have to think it was beginning to drink. I tried all the folk methods to remove it and ultimately "broke it." I made a small incision and irrigated the wound copiously, but was so paranoid about lymes disease, that I presented to an MD the next day in a panic, asking that he re-irrigate the wound.
He did and gave me placebo antibiotics (I think) so I would not panic.