The Nimrod is the classic answer; the truth is its completely useless in any wind. Looks good though, I own a modern version, and it was a fun party lighter for drunk idiots.
The Zippo is servicable, but you're going to taste alot of naphtha on the first few lights. YMMV on how you feel about that. They make a "pipe" version, but I don't think its really any better than a standard and probably counter productive in the wind, anyways.
The best answer is a butane jet lighter, commonly used for cigars. You need to be aware that it will easily eat away the bowl if you let it linger too long, but in wind its the most reliable way to light, period. My preference was a Colibri model, which I still use to light bowls with.
