I'm confident fishing my flies, and that's all that matters to me. Not all of them "look" great, but they work for me. I've been tying for around 4 years now. I tie just to fill my boxes, and create things here and there. I mostly find patterns that work and crank out a few dozen. My dries just started to get better last year. It's amazing how good hackle makes a difference. Now working on using alternative materials for dries... cdc, hair wing, etc. I'm by no means proficient, but have no problem giving my flies away either. They're not embarassing anymore lol.
Ryan