Yo Jes - this is a bit late, but the one thing that makes a huge difference is keeping the hooks super sharp. I always carefully sharpen new hooks after debarbing them when tying flies. On the stream I carry a diamond nail file, which is thin enough to get under the hook point of a #22, or even a #32. Just a light stroke or two to freshen the 3 sided point makes a much easier hookset. I hardly even strike with flies smaller than #18. To sink these tiny points requires only 1 or 2 mm, so heroic hooksetting doesn't seem useful.